Edition 61 — June 8th, 2025
business

Tired of Pitching — But NOT Being Chosen?

You’ve mastered your craft.
Your work is excellent.

You keep getting invited to pitch.
You’re always in the conversation.
You’re the “safe option.” The “reliable one.” The “respected team.”

But still… you don’t get the job.
You show up. You deliver. You impress.

And yet, the client goes with someone else.
Someone louder. Looser. Maybe even riskier.
Someone who wasn’t necessarily better, just more wanted.

And deep down, it stings.

Because you’ve done everything right.
You’ve built the reputation for delivering.
You’ve built the systems.
You’ve built the business.

But you still feel… overlooked.
Invited. But not chosen.


You’re Not Being Passed Over Because Your Work Sucks

Because you’re excellent  >  but not relevant.
Respected  >  but not desired.
Visible  >  but not unmissable.

This is the trap of mid-stage success:

Excellence gets you shortlisted.
Only owning your voice gets you picked.


The Leap from Excellent to Desired

Here’s how to stop pitching into silence,
and start being the one they want from the start:


1. Own a Point of View

You’re no longer being judged by what you can do.
You’re being judged by what you stand for.

Buyers at the next level don’t just want execution,
they want a lens. A philosophy. A pulse.

They want someone who helps them see the world differently.

Ask yourself:
What do we believe that our next-tier clients need to hear?

Then say it.
Loud.
Everywhere.


2. Build Your Brand Around That POV

Not your logo.
Not your site template.

Your brand is your reputation.
It’s what clients feel when your name comes up in the room.

Not “They’re great.”
But “We need them.”

Everything, your voice, your story, your visuals, your case studies,
should amplify your belief.

Because the loudest brand isn’t the one that shouts.
It’s the one that means something.


3. Make Yourself Desirable

When all the options are excellent,
buyers stop comparing quality, and start sensing energy.

They choose the clearest signal. The boldest stance. The strongest feeling.

Make your belief tangible.

Tell a story. Make a case. Connect your POV to the outcomes they care about.


Clarity builds trust.
A voice builds desire.

Together, they make you the obvious choice.


4. Put That Signal in the Right Places

If your thinking lives behind closed doors,
you’ll always have to explain yourself to get into the room.

But when your perspective lives in public,
in your writing, your work, your collaborations,
clients start following you before they need you.


Doors you didn’t know existed will open.

And when they invite you now,
they already know who they want.


5. Flip the Dynamic

The goal isn’t to win more pitches.
The goal is to stop pitching altogether.

Your brand should carry so much weight
that clients feel chosen when you say yes.


That’s the shift:

  • From chasing  >  to attracting.
  • From proving  >  to filtering.
  • From pitching  >  to being the one they already believe in.


If You’re Tired of Being Respected But Replaceable…

Tired of crafting the perfect deck
only to watch the job go elsewhere.

The problem isn’t your work.
It’s not your price.
It’s not your pitch.


It’s your brand.

Or more precisely, your lack of a sharp, recognizable, emotional reputation.

You’ve done the work.
Now it’s time to be wanted for it.

This is the leap.

From excellent…
to desired.

Marko Pfann

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